My grandfather died 5/18/2012 around 10:18PM here in Sioux Falls, SD at the Avera heart hospital surrounded by his children and grandchildren. I had the great sorrow-filled joy of being at his bedside as his heart slowed to stop and breathing ended. Words fail me to express the feelings to experience the death of a man who impacted so many lives.
I will share a few details of his life and what he meant to me and also edit/add/correct this post in the next few days. I know that in the presence of God he is now and that now or in the future he will also meet people who are in the kingdom because he gave selflessly.
If I had to pick two words that summarize his life they would be Jesus and justice and out of that his love for his family and all people.
He attended seminary for a while – but never became a pastor. He spent most of his life farming outside of Springfield, SD.
In the 1950s he and grandma were a part of an intentional interracial church in Chicago. In 1958 he with two other Euro descent and two African-American brothers drove together in an early freedom ride down through the south. They personally met Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Rosa Parks and the Rev. Ralph Abernathy. He told stories of being followed, kicked out of restaurants, hotels, and harassed – however I never learned of this ride until 2010 – because it was not something that came up in regular conversation. I did know he was a personal friend of and a supporter of Ted Blakey an African-American civil rights and political leader here in South Dakota who lived in Yankton.
As a follower of Jesus he loved on people through his farming, teaching at the high school in Springfield, SD and the University of South Dakota – Springfield before it was closed. He served in his church Friedensburg bible church in many capacities, was involved in the larger conference of his church, and also semi retired at age 55 to serve with Mennonite Mission Network and Habitat for Humanity in Ziare (now the Democratic Republic of the Congo) as a missionary for 8 1/2 years – nearly dying in the last 1/2 year due to kidney failure related to anti-Malaria drugs. (He as also VERY insistent that if he should die in Africa his body was to be left in Africa). Then serving for several years in a school on a Hopi Native American reservation in Arizona.
He was one of the few men in my life who was not a pastor and yet modeled and lived the priesthood of all believers and took the Bible and church seriously and joyfully. When his son Ted (Theodore) who is my biological father had divorced my mother it was him and grandma that really kept us connected with the Boese family through the following years. He also reached out to my step father Fred once they had returned from mission service and were back in the SD area.
When visiting him he poured out grace and encouragement. He did this with many people. He was also ready for a good spirited theological/Biblical and political debate (he was an old-school Democrat) at the drop of a hat – to push people to really wrestle with Jesus’ teachings.
He had a favorite t-shirt in the last few years (of which I suspect he had more than one of) that said “Live simply – that other’s may simply live.” He lived this motto – he and grandma gave to others, to missions, to world relief – of their lives and their funds. When they built a house to retire in outside of Springfield it was built into a side of a hill, repurposed materials for much of it and highly energy efficient from passive solar and so on.
Grandpa embodied, lived out kingdom values spiritually and physically. In fact he insisted that he be buried in a basic coffin within 24 hours and no extra funeral frills – requesting that the money saved be given to the (his mission work was part of the predecessor to what is now the) Africa Inter-Mennonite Mission http://www.aimmintl.org/
I will miss him. But he is present with the Lord. One day I will see him again and we will joke, debate and worship together in the presence of Jesus Christ the ruler overall. And together we will bow before the One, the Lamb of God who gave it all – so we can give it all for Jesus. And that will be a glorious day.
I love you grandpa and will miss you. Talk to the Lord about your family. Some are afar off and others will need the encouragement you can give as part of the “Cloud of Witnesses”.
Your first grandchild,
-Shelby
Precious in the sight of the LORD
is the death of his saints.
(Psalm 116:15 ESV)


